7 Quick Takes Friday ~ Vol 111

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 — 1 —  Last Week’s Post: I Am Just An Average Girl

— 2 —  Next Week’s Post:  Why Won’t He Call Me?  

— 3 —    Not Alone Series:  Last Week’s Topic was Encouraging Men!!

— 4 —    Not Alone Series:  This Week’s Topic was Challenge Time!

— 5 —   Soulmates and Santa Clause:  This article over at The Chastity Project presented a very balanced theology.  

— 6 —    Prayers:  Praying for those killed and injured in the terrorist attacks in Tunisia and Yemen.  One of my favorite aspects of this blog is how it has opened up the whole world to me.  I have met girls from around the world and now when I hear of these attacks, it becomes closer to home.

  7 —   Christ Is The Answer:  Trust.

Christ Is The Answer

God love and bless you!

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7 Quick Takes Friday ~ Vol 110

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 — 1 —  Last Week’s Post:  Don’t Take Away His Dragons. It is so tempting to want to ‘make something happen’ rather than trust in the process. Please write to me if you need encouragement.

— 2 —  Next Week’s Post:  As promised, I will share with you why you can trust in the process…..even, and especially if you are an average girl like me.

— 3 —    Not Alone Series:  Last Week’s Topic was Travel!  A very timely topic considering I was on travel for work in San Diego last week.  Oh, San Diego, with your beautiful weather, thank you!

— 4 —    Not Alone Series:  This Week’s Topic was Dating Fast!  Best quotes:

Ok, Lord, I’m not looking for him…just do whatever you want…. *peeking* …ok, really, just bring him whenever you want…”  Morgan

and this:

” I have seen girls often think, especially because of that typical story I talked about earlier of girl declares dating fasts, boy pursues, girl gets boy at end of year, ladies think that a dating fast is part of the secret formula to dating.  “If only I go on a dating fast than Mr. Future Husband will enter into my life with a dozen roses and a devotion to St. Joseph. ”  Don’t fall into that trap.  Whether you go on a dating fast or not, the Lord’s will still needs to be done in your dating and vocational life.  Don’t ever forget that, it is always His will.”  Natalie

— 5 —   A Message For You:  God speaks words designed especially for us:

“God solicits each of us by a dialogue no other soul can hear. His action on the soul is always for us alone. He sends no circular letters, uses no party lines. He calls His sheep by name; He leaves the 99 that are safe to find the one that is lost. Once the soul becomes conscious of the Divine Presence it whispers to itself: this is a message sent to me and to no one else. Archbishop Fulton Sheen (Lift up Your Heart)

— 6 —    Spotlight On:  This week’s spotlight is on George Weigel for his article, No Fighting God.

“…Job, I came to see, is the model of what an Italian biblical scholar has called “the believer who loves the true God in himself and for himself, without ulterior motives”—and does so precisely along the dark path of suffering. It is Job, sitting amidst misery, who rejects his friends’ calculating, facile suggestions about why bad things happen to good people. It is Job who, in the end, refuses to cram the divine will and purpose onto the procrustean bed of human wisdom. It is Job who, finally, lets God be God—and who, by admitting that he is not the artisan of his own existence, makes a deeper act of faith in the God whose divine “logic” in beyond anything human minds can grasp….”

  7 —   My Healing:  If you read my last 7QTs, I revealed that I had been sick. I had what was in hindsight, a virus.  But, before that determination, the diagnoses could have been all kinds of scary things.  Without going into too much detail, I was in so much pain that I visited our Parish priest for Confession, followed by my first reception of the Sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick.  My main goal was to receive peace, but I knew that if I was going to be healed, I had to go to the Divine Healer.  I did receive the gift of Peace immediately and within 2 days, was completely healed.  I now have compassion on those suffering with Chronic pain, especially in their joints.  I now have an awareness of my lack of pain whenever I lift something, move my wrists or climb stairs.  It is one of those ‘new lease on life/my life is now Yours, Lord’ experiences that can only be described as a gift from on high.  Praise be to God.

God love and bless you!

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7 Quick Takes Friday ~ Vol 109

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 — 1 —  Last Week’s Post:  Thank you again to Tammy for allowing me to link to her post over at Counter Cultural Catholic!  Looking forward to more from her!

— 2 —  Next Week’s Post:  As promised, I will be sharing my post about managing your online dating ‘footprint’.  The post is titled, “Don’t Take Away His Dragons” which is a direct quote from Gregg after I shared with him your experiences with online dating.

— 3 —    Not Alone Series:  Last Week’s Topic was Qualities in our Husbands.  Such a wise listing by these wise girls! Thank you for the shout-out Katie!

I was impressed that new-comer, Katie, listed RESOURCEFUL as a quality.  Girl, you are a very wise 21 year-old!  I also loved her concluding paragraph and want to say, “Yes, hold on to that hope!”:

“The romantic in me wants to believe that you can have both: passionate love and compatibility. Is that what God has in mind for us single women? I’d like to think so, and unless He shows me otherwise, I’m going to hold on hoping for a man who will check off my list and sweep me off my feet.”

— 4 —    Not Alone Series:  This Week’s Topic was Loneliness.  I was impressed that these post were so honest.  I did not detect any pity parties going on, just the reality of what we experience in the single life.  It helps to know that it is a universal feeling.  And, as Morgan wrote, the whole idea of NAS is ‘solidarity.’  Great job, girls!

— 5 —   Overload:  Remember I wrote that I was feeling overloaded?  Welll, the 7 day fever, headache and fatigue that was heading my way at the time might explain why.  I was out of work this whole week and had 3 visits to different medical professionals. There were days when I didn’t turn a single light on in the house or get off the couch until Gregg arrived home.  I am feeling much better today.  I know some of you were praying for me and I thank you!

— 6 —    Spotlight On:  This week’s spotlight is on you, my beautiful readers. I think you are so brave and healthy.  After reading so much about that stupid movie and book, I realized the pressure you girls are under and how you could be judged for your opinion about the holiness of sex. This article helped me understand the appeal that the book and movie might have for some.  It basically boils down to unresolved Daddy issues.  These women may have never experienced love and acceptance from anyone.

But some of you have bad or even no father at all and you are still able to see the truth.  You are correct if you believe marital love is freeing.  You are correct to want passion that you can trust and leaves you feeling beautiful and safe.  I am so impressed that you are not believing the lie that stands ready to destroy you.  I solute you.

“The virtue of chastity in our culture may be seen as a form of white martyrdom”

(Fr. Dan Pattee, TOR). St. Agatha, pray for us!

  7 —   Lent and a Healing Mass:  Lent starts Wednesday!  We are going to a Healing Mass on Thursday. It is going to be a good week.  I will be praying for you.

God love and bless you!

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7 Quick Takes Friday ~ Vol 108

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 — 1 —  This Week’s Post:  When He Writes, “Feel Free To..”  So pleased with the response to this post!  Even sweet Arleen Spencely took notice and tweeted about it!  Thank you, Arleen!

— 2 —  Next Week’s Post:  I was emailing with a girl about how Catholicmatch.com is set up and I shared my thoughts on how a girl might manage her on-line ‘footprint’.  🙂  She and I plan to do a joint post next week!

— 3 —    Not Alone Series:  Last Week’s Topic was All The Children ~  Babies and children. Go check out all the cute photos of the babies!

— 4 —    Not Alone Series:  This Week’s Topic was Selfies! and they write about “Do you support the selfie trend? Do you think it promotes self absorption, vanity and narcissism? Is there a way to incorporate selfies into the Church’s teachings of modesty, authentic beauty, humility?”   Great topic.  Surprisingly, I don’t have a strong opinion.  I took my first selfie the other day and I had to be shown how to do it. 🙂

— 5 —   Overload:  I feel it.  How about you?

— 6 —    Spotlight On:  This week’s spotlight is  on Kari Kampakis for her post called “A Word To Girls About Sexting and Setting Standards.”  Important for everyone to think about!

  7 —   Theology Over Dinner:  Gregg and I lead a bible study every Thursday night with another couple.  Last night this other couple hosted a Theology Over Dinner event and it had quite a turnout.  A rough count of 50 people of variety of ages from about 7 different parishes!  It was held at a local restaurant where we had dinner and then heard a talk given by a wonderful priest.  These will happen once a month and mimic the Theology on Tap events. I do believe that the Lord was glorified!

You remain in my prayers! God love and bless you!

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7 Quick Takes Friday ~ Vol 107

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 — 1 —  This Week’s Post:    Let Him Process  Find out what I recommend when a guy stops communicating!

— 2 —  Next Week’s Post:  When He Writes, “Feel Free to…” ~  I hear this from many girls.  What should you do when the guy puts the ball in your court?  Check out next week’s post! 

— 3 —    Not Alone Series:  Last Week’s Topic was A Typical Day!  Nosey me enjoyed reading these posts!

— 4 —    Not Alone Series:  This Week’s Topic was 2015!   A very inspiring topic and the girls did a great job at sharing their goals!

— 5 —    Empowered:  I have a renewed sense of feeling empowered by Grace in this new year.  I haven’t exactly harnessed it yet but I am becoming aware that it is available to me.  It seems that this empowerment reveals itself most when my prayer is “Glorify Yourself through this, Lord.”  The Book of Acts is especially good!

— 6 —    Spotlight On:  This week’s spotlight is on The Augustine Institute!  They are doing a beautiful job of sharing our Catholic Faith and putting tools out for Evangelization. Gregg and I are using the Symbolon series in our weekly bible study and it is amazing!Their mission is to “Transform Catholics for the New Evangelization.” You can find them on Facebook and on Twitter.  Here is an example of their work, Beloved:  The Mystery and Meaning of Marriage:

<p><a href=”http://vimeo.com/112875158″>Beloved // Sneak Peek</a> from <a href=”http://vimeo.com/augustineinstitute”>Augustine Institute</a> on <a href=”https://vimeo.com”>Vimeo</a&gt;.</p>

  7 —   Your Emails:  I love hearing from you!  Please feel free to reach out to me:  theveilofchastity@gmail.com

You remain in my prayers! God love and bless you!

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7 Quick Takes Friday ~ Vol 106

 

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— 1 —  Last Week’s Post:    I Wished I Was Different  I hope this encouraged you to not compare yourself to other girls.  You will be loved for how God made you.

— 2 —  My Talk:  Well, the talk I was supposed to give tonight was cancelled…well postponed. I have learned to go with the flow of God’s will on things like this.  The girl who was hosting it was overwhelmed with life.  She has a new baby ~ her 9th I think and they run a farm so it is understandable!  It was a good opportunity for me to get my ‘in person’ thoughts down on paper.  I have never given a talk before and was struggling with where to begin.  The awesome thing about the blog is that I can post once a week and let the Holy Spirit lead.  And, I can respond to your specific needs when you email me.  But, to have a group of girls of unknown various ages with unknown needs when it comes to information about love and marriage….it was tough to know where to begin.  Which leads me to Quick Take #3….

— 3 —Next Week’s Post:  I plan to share what I came up with for the talk in a post.  I will pretend like you are sitting in my friend’s living room and I am giving my talk.  What will be missing is the interaction I hope to have.  Most of it will look familiar to you if you have been following the blog for a while. Hopefully, there will be a nugget or two of wisdom for you to take away.

— 4 — Blog Stats:  Wordpress sent my “2014 Year In Blogging” Annual Report.  Over 146,000 visit to the site from readers living in 171 Countries.    I am amazed!

  • Through email, I have met girls from all over the US.  But what a privilege to know girls from other Countries including Belgium, Ethiopia, London, Croatia, South Africa, Bermuda, Beirut Lebanon, Kenya, India, Poland, Philippines, Sweden, Australia, Italy and Turkey!
  • This year, I met Jen in person!
  • My Divine Mercy Chaplet prayer list has over 250 names listed.  When I pray, I have the CD playing the chaplet in the background as I say each of your names out loud.
  • Shout out to all the girls at the University of Dallas for the following that seems to have sprouted there this year
  • Many thanks to The NAS girls under the inspiration of Jen and Morgan
  • Finally, thank you to the girls from Argentina who translate my blog posts into Spanish over at A ti te lo digo!

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— 5 —  7 Quick Takes in 2015:  I decided I will be posting my 7QTs every other week in 2015. I am not sure the 7QTs adds much other than readership.  When I thought about it, readership is not really my goal. My goal is to be faithful to the Lord in this ministry and to be a source of hope and support for single girls.  I think that can be met via the weekly posts. I am also sensing the pressure to be more available to the Lord in some other way.  Specifically, I hope to be more available to you girls via email…..while still carrying out my duties as a wife and mom, daughter, sister, friend and employee.  I carry around a feeling of constant failure in each of those duty areas and I need to get to the root of it in 2015, starting with how I spend my free time.

— 6 —   Alice von Hildebrand:  She and John Henry Crosby wrote a book about Alice’s late husband, Dietrich. It is called My Battle With Hitler.  Much of my Veil theory is based on my reading Dietrich von Hildebrand and the whole Superabundance thing is really his term, not mine.  I put my own spin on it which is *not endorsed* by anyone associated with the Hildebrands.

 But!  I was very excited to receive a book signed by John Henry Crosby!  He sent it to me to thank me for being on the Launch Team.  Also, they are following me on Twitter! This is very exciting for me.  Gregg plans on reading the book and then I hope to convince him to do a post with his review.  You can follow the Hildebrand Project and John Henry Crosby Here and Here..  

  7 —   Bible Study: Our bible study started up again last night after a 2 month break. It was so good!  We are doing the Symbolon series.  Great stuff!  Also, our group is starting an evangelistic outreach once a month called Theology Over Dinner.  It is held at a mom and pop restaurant owned by Catholics.  We are all very excited about the potential to reach folks with the truth of Jesus and of the Catholic faith!

God love and bless you!

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7 Quick Takes Friday ~ Vol 105

 

 

— 1 —  This Week’s Post:    From “Something is Wrong With Me” to “I’m Engaged!”  What a wonderful encouragement for us all that ‘in a New York minute’ everything can change.

— 2 —  No other QTs today.  I had a stressful and busy (but fun!) week and today I had to catch up on wrapping presents and such. But, I am off work for the next 2 weeks! 🙂

— 3 — I remain available to you via email so please feel free to reach out to me:  theveilofchastity@gmail.com

— 4 —  Please know that I try to respond as soon as possible.  Gregg and I (and our 9-year-old) share our 1 computer (No iPad for us due to my continuing goal to become a minimalist) so I can’t always get on to respond right away.  

— 5 —  As a side note, when I am at work, I cannot respond at all.

— 6 —   Thank you for understanding!

  7 —  You remain in my prayers!

God love and bless you!

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7 Quick Takes Friday ~ Vol 104

— 1 —  This Week’s Post:    You Don’t Have To Be An Open Book!

— 2 —  Next Week’s Post:  Hmmmmm….

— 3 —  Not Alone Series:   The girls are on a break until January.  I will miss them!

— 4 —   Spotlight On:  Have you heard of The Nika Gals, Emmy and Rosy?  And how about those beautiful names, Emmy and Rosy?  Also, you must go read about them and the meaning behind the name, Nika.  I was introduced to them via their post called The List.  You can follow them on Facebook here!

— 5 —  Healing Mass:  I went to a Healing Mass last night.  Boy was I ready!  I was filled with so much HOPE after receiving Jesus in the Eucharist and then being prayed over.  The laying on of hands.  The cross made on my forehead by the holy hands of the priest.  It was exactly what this girl needed.  I did not get to go to confession because there was a person in the confessional…..almost…the…whole…time (I don’t think the priest knew that we were all waiting).  When I came home and told this to Gregg, our son said with sadness, “Boy that person must have felt really terrible about their sins.”  I just love it when I encounter these marathon confessions.  It means that the Sacrament is being taken seriously by both the priest and the human soul in the confessional.  It means that the soul is being brought back home and that some major healing is going on.

— 6 —    Healing During Advent:  After going to the healing Mass, I realized that I am in need of so much change.  What you ask? Ha!  Where to start is a better question. I want to become a patient and kind, organized Minimalist.  I want to rid myself of my attachments.  I want to be free so that I can glorify God by my life. Gregg always gets concerned when I start speaking this way.  ha ha. Pray for me please, that I will be gracious and kind in my pursuit of becoming gracious and kind.

“Contentment is acquired through great resolution & diligence in conquering unruly desires; hence it is an art which few study “

  7 — Emotional Virtue/Sarah Swafford:  I have decided the talk I mentioned last week which I will be giving to girls on January 2nd will be about Emotional Virtue (ala Sarah Swafford).    You can pre-order her book, Emotional Virtue: A Guide to Drama-Free Relationships, here! I ordered 36 books because when you order in bulk they are only $2 each! Maybe I will have a give-away contest in January when they arrive. 🙂

God love and bless you!

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7 Quick Takes Friday ~ Vol 103

— 1 —  This Week’s Post:    Guest Post ~  Praying Through The Clouds  Thank you to Anjelina!

— 2 —  Next Week’s Post:  Hmmmmm….

— 3 —  Not Alone Series:   This week’s NAS topic was Preparing The Way!  I have not read any of the NAS girl’s posts yet but I will this weekend.  I skimmed over Jen’s post and now I can’t wait to read it in full along with the others!

— 4 —   Spotlight On: Esther Rich wrote a great article on The Chastity Project blog called I Didn’t Wait And Wish I Did: An open response to Samantha Pugsley.  Again, I am in ‘skim’ mode but it looks like Esther did a great job of clearing up misconceptions about marital chastity.  If you remember, Esther provided a guest post here!   Nice job Esther!

— 5 —  The Humanum Series:  Do you remember me including the Humanum Series in my 7QTs last time?  May I recommend the site which has all 6 videos?  You can find them Here.  It is wonderful!  Be sure to scroll down the page to see all the videos.

— 6 —    Marrying Your Best Friend:  This Article was great! 

  7 — Giving A Talk:  I have been invited to talk to a group of girls between the ages of 19 and 24 years old and the topic is: Marriage.  I have been told that some of these girls are experiencing temptation to try to make it happen at any cost.   The talk is on Friday night January 2, 2015.  Will you please pray for me and these girls?  What would be the most helpful thing I can share with these girls?  I would love to hear from you! @ theveilofchastity@gmail.com

God love and bless you!

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7 Quick Takes Friday ~ Vol 102

— 1 —  This Week’s Post:     Oh My Parents! I hope this post provided helpful perspective!   

— 2 —  Next Week’s Post:  Hmmmmm….

— 3 —  Not Alone Series:   This week’s NAS topic was Prayer!  The girls did a great job this week and the photos they shared are beautiful.  Check them out!

— 4 —   Spotlight On: What did you think of this article?  Why I Want To Skip The Confusing “Talking” Phase and Find Out What He Really Wants

— 5 —  The Humanum Series:  Did you see this article about The Destiny of Humanity:  On the Meaning of Marriage?  Here is the video Part 1 of 6:  

— 6 —     3 Keys:  This was a good article:   3 Keys to Save your Future Marriage.  I agree with all the keys with the exception of the 3rd key listed in the article. It says that marriage is ‘extremely difficult’ but I think it is all about perspective.  Being single is, to me, much, much harder.

  7 —  Finally Free:  This weekend is the first in many, many weekends since August that we have nothing planned other than Mass and a trip to the grocery store.  We had to work today and it is cold in our house.  So, instead of finishing up this remaining Quick Take, I think I will get under a blanket.  Brrrrrr.  I have received a number of emails this week from you beautiful girls and I look forward to catching up tomorrow morning after a good night’s rest.

God love and bless you!

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