7 Quick Takes Friday ~ Vol 5

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This week’s 7 Quick Takes will have a Thanksgiving theme.  I will focus on the beautiful aspects of life for which I am grateful.

Truth:  This week’s blog post sets up the foundation for the myths that singles must fight against.  I will share 7 myths over the next several weeks and will combat them with the truth.  Truth is beautiful!

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The Thirsting:  Check out this beautiful song by Catholic artists The Thirsting.  The song is called My Soul.

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Jackie Francios: She. Is. Fantastic! Check out this amazing video of Jackie Francios.  It starts out slow but builds to….WOW.  It is 43 minutes long but you won’t regret watching it.

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Divine Mercy Chaplet:   Each Sunday evening as I fold the laundry, I play this CD and pray for all the people and petitions placed on my heart.  For those of you that have written to me on my blog, I have added you to my weekly devotion.

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Switchfoot:  Check out this beautiful song by the Christian band Switchfoot.  The song is called Your Love is a Song.

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Suffering:  How in the world is suffering beautiful you might ask? Check out this episode of The Choices We Face.  It features Father John Riccardo.  I feel so blessed to be Catholic.

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Generation Life:  If I had a million dollars, I would ensure that each diocese had a Generation Life missionary team sharing the dignity of the human person and the beauty of the virtue of Chastity!!! 

Here is their Company Mission Statement:  Generation Life is a movement of young people committed to building a Culture of Life by educating our peers on the pro-life and chastity messages and developing new leaders for the pro-life movement. We believe that by spreading the message of chastity, we can end abortion at the root cause.  

Yes, Yes, Yes!!!  Check them out here               And here

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7 Quick Takes Friday ~ Vol 4

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My 1st Guest post!  Please go here to read “Runaway Brides.”  Thank you Anabelle!

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7 Myths Singles Must Resist:   I will be expanding on and posting 1 myth per week so stay tuned!

1.   Other people are getting away with sin/sex is Consequence-free

2.   God has forgotten about me

3.   Something is wrong with me

4.   Men/Women are defective

5.   Attraction is Physical

6.   I Am Too Picky

7.   I Can Change Him/Her

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Things I Notice: I notice things while I am out to lunch that strike me as being odd. This week, a couple walked in to the restaurant. The girl reached over and grabbed her boyfriend’s hand. She escorted him to the counter to order.

She paid for hers and he paid for his. She was about 20 years old and seemed to be way more into him than he was to her.  Her total lunch may have cost $7. But, they went Dutch. It was a sign to me.   An odd sign.

It reminded me of the movie The Joy Luck Club.

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On-line Dating: It can be horribly distressing if you put all your eggs in the on-line dating basket. I thought of on-line dating as a “supplemental” way of dating, not the sole source. With that approach, I remained open to all avenues. These various avenues expanded my options when it came to potential suitors. I honestly never expected to meet my husband on-line. It was a long-shot back in 2001 but today it is becoming more and more common. Give it a try! Like anything, it can only do harm if you make it your idol.

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Behaving Badly: You know that saying “Well behaved women rarely make history.”? Who makes this stuff up? Yes, well-behaved women certainly have made history. They are often called Saints. Sometimes good behavior goes unnoticed (at least here on earth). But, should our behavior choices really be influenced by whether they make history or not? Our behavior should align with our dignity, not our need for attention. Maybe they really mean “Well behaved women rarely make the internet compared to those behaving badly.”

If you have the “rarely make history” version anywhere on your public record (facebook, blog, on-line dating profile), think about what that says about you. If I were a guy, I would worry about my potential wife’s belief in public displays of bad behavior even for the most noble cause. There are many ways to approach a problem. Our faith tells us virtue is:

“an habitual and firm disposition to do the good. It allows the person not only to perform good acts, but to give the best of himself. The virtuous person tends toward the good with all his sensory and spiritual powers; he pursues the good and chooses it in concrete actions.The goal of a virtuous life is to become like God.” CCC 1803

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Veteran’s Day:  I felt a little sad at the Veteran’s Day ceremony this week.  So many brave men and women gave their lives for our freedom from tyranny.  Is that freedom about to end for Catholics?  We all love what America stands for ~ freedom.  But, is freedom a thing of the past?  

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The Election: Most know what happened in Germany. Watch this and this to educate yourself on Poland.

Blessed Pope John Paul II, pray for us! May we have your courage, holiness, impact and most of all, your hope.

Let your Spirit descend and renew the face of the earth, and this land.”

Blessed Pope John Paull II, Warsaw Poland, June 2, 1979

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7 Quick Take Fridays

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Our Catholic Love Story, Part 2:  Last Friday, Anabelle Hazard’s blog “Written By The Finger Of God” featured our Catholic Love Story.  This week, I share with you Part 2 of our love story.  I hesitated to share the details of Part 2 for fear it would seem like I was boasting.  But, if you will please overlook the sappiness, you may see:

a.  My husband’s courage.  And, the need for men to get to the point in their lives where they are willing and able to be courageous.  

b. Your expectations for being pursued, loved and cherished are not too high

c.  In a New York minute, everything can change.

My hope, as always, is that God continues to be glorified through our story.

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Guest Post Next Week:    I am so excited to have a real life Catholic author featured next week.  Anabelle Hazard (see #1 above) will be providing my first guest post!  She writes Catholic novels and they are FREE.  Even better, they are inspiring, romantic and clean!  Head on over to her site and download (to your computer or Kindle) the novels.  Stay tuned for her guest post next week as she shares some details of her single life along with her Catholic Love Story.  It is called “Runaway Brides” which should peak your interest! 

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The Election:  Here is my unsolicited, respectful advice for our US Bishops:  Start catechising your flock now for 2016!  We, as a Church, obviously do not understand what intrinsic evil and non-negotiable means.  Pretend like we are completely uncatechized, because we are.  Start with Chastity education first.  Spend 2 years every Sunday helping us make the connection.  Teach our young.  Then, move onto Religious Freedom.  You cannot understand religious freedom without first understanding Chastity.

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The Election:  This video was put out on November 4th – two days before the election – in an attempt to explain to Catholics what the HHS Mandate is and how it will affect us. It was way too late to make an impact.   In summary, the Catholic Church, our schools, hospitals and charities will now either have to:

a. Violate our beliefs and pay for abortifacients (yes, the pill is an abortifacient) and sterilization

b. Pay Huge fines ($100.00 per day per person until we capitulate) and eventually shut down due to financial ruin

c. Serve only Catholics

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This very moving painting is by artist Tahnja Woltor from Australia.

The Election: So, over the last 8 weeks, the Bishops had our priests ‘review’ from the pulpit what the Catholic Church recommends concerning voting. Don’t get me wrong, I love our Pastor!! But, I think the Bishops need to realize that it was like teaching algebra to 2nd graders. In order to understand algebra and successfully solve algebraic equations, one must be able to, at minimum, add.

It is the same with voting according to one’s conscience. The conscience must be formed correctly and that takes a foundation in catechesis.  The Bishops should have been hammering home the message about the HHS Mandate and what it means to us.  But, instead we got nice-nice “religious freedom” talk. And we, the audience full of 2nd graders, were like “Wha?”

The outcome of this election is our own fault. Yes, we Catholics are responsible. To much is given, much is expected. Lord help us. 

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Chastity Education:  What is obvious to me is that we are never going to win the battle unless we change hearts one at a time. We can’t legislate morality anymore. Those days of depending on society to keep order are gone.  But, this is an opportunity.

The results of the election reinforce the need for Chastity education and I feel convicted and overwhelmed with emotion at the thought of making an impact.  As of today, The Veil of Chastity blog has reached 22 countries, including the Russian Federation, Poland, Brazil, Argentina, Rwanda, South Africa, Austria, Switzerland, New Zealand, Denmark, Australia, Belgium, Philippines, Indonesia, Thailand, Taiwan, Canada, the UK, Italy, France, Spain and the U.S.  I pray that I will know, love, write and speak the beautiful Truth of Chastity.

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Trustful Surrender to Divine Providence:  This is the first principle from the book “The Joy of Full Surrender” by Jean-Pierre DeCaussade:  

Nothing is done, nothing happens, either in the material or in the moral world, that God has not foreseen from all eternity, and that he has not willed, or at least permitted.”

Our hope is in Jesus and we are resurrection people!  Everyone needs God and God chases everyone.  Even those that mock us and make fun of us and Him.  Our Lord even loves and chases those that will cause us to suffer over the HHS Mandate.

But, here is the problem:  I don’t want to suffer and I don’t want my family to suffer.  I don’t want our beloved priests or our Church to suffer. I know deep down this will be a blessing in the end and that God has permitted it.  Jesus was scourged, spit upon, mocked and crucified.  So must we suffer. 

Jesus, our Hope and our Love, rose from the dead and He lives.  He has not left us alone to fight this battle.

We are Easter people and alleluia is our song!”  St. Augustine of Hippo

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7 Quick Take Fridays

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Our Catholic Love Story:  Every Friday, Anabelle Hazard’s blog “Written By The Finger Of God” includes a Catholic love story.  Today, Gregg and I are featured!  It was an honor to participate in her blog and share our story.  She has some really inspiring love stories, so head on over and take a look.   Also, she has FREE books you can download to your Kindle or print out.  She wrote the books so if you are into romantic, Catholic, clean, fiction, check her out.  Thank you, Anabelle!

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All Saints’ Day:  I don’t know about you but I think that Purgatory is a sign of God’s profound mercy.  Unlike the Saints, my robe will definitely need a lengthy washing in the blood of the Lamb.  Praise God!

 “My lord, you are the one who knows.” He said to me, “These are the ones who have survived the time of great distress; they have washed their robes and made them white in the blood of the Lamb.”  Revelation 7:13 

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Daily Gospel:  Each weekday, I have the daily Mass readings sent to my email box and I try to make it the first thing I read each morning. The site that sends the daily readings is called DGO, Daily Gospel Org. I highly recommend signing up! DGO includes the daily Mass readings as well as a ‘Commentary of the day’ from the Holy Saints, Church Doctors or Early Church Fathers.  Yesterday’s (All Saints’ Day) Commentary of the Day came from Saint Thérèse of the Child Jesus (1873-1897), Carmelite, Doctor of the Church:

 “The communion of saints:  Sister Marie of the Eucharist wanted to light the candles for a procession; she had no matches; however, seeing the little lamp which was burning in front of the relics, she approached it. Alas, it was half out; there remained only a feeble glimmer on its blackened wick. She succeeded in lighting her candle from it, and with this candle, she lighted those of the whole community. It was, therefore, the half-extinguished little lamp which had produced all these beautiful flames which, in their turn, could produce an infinity of others and even light the whole universe…. It is the same with the Communion of Saints…”

Saint Thérèse reminded me that we are part of the Communion of Saints. We are The Church Militant!!  With God’s grace, even our feeble glimmer can light the whole universe. Let’s light it up!

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The Church Militant:  Election Day is right around the corner.   In case you, the Church Militant, have not been keeping track, there are  non-negotiables.  Non-negotiables are the intrinsically evil things supported by our culture of death: 

  • Abortion
  • Contraception
  • Euthanasia
  • Embryonic Stem Cell Research
  • Human Cloning
  • Homosexual “Marriage”

In addition, this is the biggest threat to your future as a Catholic:  The HHS Mandate.  Vote and defeat Obama.  If you don’t understand what the Church has against contraception, then you do not understand Chastity.  Not a criticism, just a challenge.  Look into it.  Study it.  Spend time in front of Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament.  Pray for your eyes to be open. 

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Hurricane and Love:  We made it through Hurricane Sandy unscathed.  We were fortunate.  And, we were overwhelmed by the outpouring of love and concern from our family and friends. Our cup runneth over.

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My Sweet Sister:  My sister had surgery this week to remove cancerous tumors.  I praise God for her recovery!

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On-line Dating:  There are nice single Catholic guys out there who are looking for a nice Catholic girl.  But, they could be stuck in some quaint town because that is the only place they could find a GOOD JOB.  Try on-line dating so he can find you!  Don’t limit yourself and God to your little piece of the earth!

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7 Quick Takes Friday

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This is my first  (really super) Quick Takes Friday.  We love you, Jennifer and it is an honor to be part of this blog party!

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Today is our 10 year wedding anniversary and I am married to an amazing man.  I really believe in this Superabundance thing!

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I might be simplifying things but, to me, Chastity is the answer to virtually all problems.

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Mormons seem to “get” this whole chastity thing.  I know very little about their beliefs but I am impressed with the young Mormon couples that I have met and their clear understanding of the beauty of family and openness to life.

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Children are  a gift.  Children are a gift.  Children are a gift.

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If I could have dinner with any couple, I would choose Alice and Dietrich von Hildebrand.  I know Dietrich passed many years ago but I just would give anything to just sit and listened to the two of them.  No one seems to talk as deeply, beautifully and as intelligently as they do anymore. 

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God is Good. 

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